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The Path to Resilience

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 Where did it start?  Each time I ask myself where I went wrong. Yup, I made a lot of mistakes. But I don't know where it all started. Each time, I feel the same way, whether I should continue what I'm doing or dwell on my mistakes. I messed up. I messed up. To be frank, I am a completely messed up person. I always think, why does it happen to me all the time? Isn't this how life teaches you? It's in these moments of self-doubt and regret that I've learned some of life's most valuable lessons. I've been beaten down by my mistakes more times than I can count, yet I still stand here, ready to face another challenge, another error waiting to happen. It's almost like a relentless teacher, life itself, constantly testing my resilience. The beauty of it all lies in the fact that it's through these stumbles and falls that I've grown stronger. Each mistake, each failure, it's all part of the journey. I've come to realize that it's not about h

Embracing Imperfection?

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They told me I am too young for this... I am too immature for this... I am too arrogant for my age... I am too naive to think like that... I am not perfect... Deep inside my heart, I agree with what they say, But it doesn't matter, it won't sway me either way. For this is who I am, and I won't pretend, If given another chance, I'd make the same blend. I embrace their critiques, I'm not flawless, it's true, Yet I stand my ground, my own path I'll pursue. I may not fit their mold, their idealistic frame, But I am unapologetically me, and that's my claim to fame. My personality, a mix of quirks and grace, An imperfect puzzle, each piece in its place. I'm a dreamer, a fighter, a heart open wide, With passion as my compass, in life's changing tide. I cherish the laughter, the tears, every scar, For they tell my story, who I truly are. I'm not a finished canvas, but a work in creation, A masterpiece evolving, a beautiful foundation.

Is trusting someone else that hard...??

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Is trusting someone else difficult...?? Trusting someone else can be hard because of things that happened before, like when someone broke your trust or did something to hurt you. It can also be difficult because you might be afraid of being vulnerable or opening up to others. Sometimes, it's because you don't trust yourself or doubt your own judgment. When people have different expectations, it can make it tough to trust each other. Building trust takes time, good communication, and being consistent and honest. Trust is important for healthy relationships, but it can be challenging to give it to others. 1) Let's start with trust  Trust is a fundamental concept that refers to the reliance, confidence, and faith that one person or entity places in another.  It is a definition...... don't make things complex. Let me explain. For me, trust is " to believe someone ".  2) How we built trust in others... Trust is built over time through consistent and positive inter

What is best ?? What does it truly mean??

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Recently I have been listening to many people's problems. And I heard the phrase" the best is waiting for you " And I thought how can you decide what is best...?? I just want to express my thoughts on it... Let's start with the beginning of the topic. My friend had some problems. And his morals are down. He told me his problems ... I told him " The best thing is waiting for you. These are just pebbles in the long journey " Here's the main topic ... Then I realised .... What is best?? I asked myself that question ... Here are my thoughts  The thing which brings success and happiness is the best thing for you.  So in life, we will get several of the worst things. After that, we might get the best thing. But how can you say it is best...?? You've never seen the next sequence of things and you never know the before things teach you something... U will just stop once you feel satisfied.   Isn't your self-satisfaction decide which is best or not ? ? I

Is Life a simulation ?

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what is life? A thought,  A desire,  A dream,  A nothing ---- pehlwanji I live in a world which has everything in it But I think I don't deserve them... It is not the 1st time I felt like this...I feel the world is a simulation where every time I will be a sacrificial goat. Everyone in their lives may have a similar situation as mine And go through similar phases. I just want to share my version... I feel this world is a simulation where it is testing me every day. When I feel I am an independent person. I think the Admin designed me that way to think I am independent. Every choice I make is a predefined path made by the Admin. When I want something that is closest to me... It will always end up breaking my heart. Why did the admin create such a program? To break at the end... The path which the Admin takes me is too difficult to manage. I know life is harder to live, but how much harder it will go? How far do I have to suffer? I think the persons who do suicide were trying to

Life's Amazing Secrets (Review and my thoughts on the Book.)

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The self-help book " Life's Amazing Secrets " was authored by Gaur Gopal Das, an Indian monk and motivational speaker. The book's goal is to help readers discover their life's purpose, improve their relationships, achieve success, and, eventually, find happiness Each portion of the book focuses on a different aspect of life: purpose, relationships, achievement, and happiness. Gaur Gopal Das offers his own experiences and insights from his time as a monk throughout the book, as well as practical guidance on how to implement these concepts in everyday life. One of the book's highlights is its focus on the need of developing great relationships with people. Gaur Gopal Das emphasises the significance of empathy, forgiveness, and communication in the development of good and meaningful relationships. He also highlights the significance of discovering one's life's purpose and offers advice on how to identify and follow one's hobbies and ambitions. The boo

Man search for meaning (Review and my thoughts on the Book.)

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General Summary : An individual's experience as a prisoner in a Nazi concentration camp is vividly described in Viktor Frankl's Man's Search for Meaning. In order to survive and get past traumatic situations, the book emphasises the power of love, hope, responsibility, inner freedom, and the beauty found in nature and art. Anyone lacking purpose in life, who believes this is the end, and who has lost all hope should read this. A Classic Tribute to Hope, this book. During the Second World War, Viktor E. Frankl, a writer, was a prisoner at the Auschwitz concentration camp. He listed the most horrific incidents in human history. Author-psychiatrist Dr Frankl describes the event that led to his discovery of Logotherapy, a type of therapy he employs to treat his patients. Man can only respond to life by being responsible since every scenario in life provides a challenge and a problem for him to address. Frankl, Viktor E. This book is divided into sections by the author. A detent