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Is trusting someone else that hard...??

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Is trusting someone else difficult...?? Trusting someone else can be hard because of things that happened before, like when someone broke your trust or did something to hurt you. It can also be difficult because you might be afraid of being vulnerable or opening up to others. Sometimes, it's because you don't trust yourself or doubt your own judgment. When people have different expectations, it can make it tough to trust each other. Building trust takes time, good communication, and being consistent and honest. Trust is important for healthy relationships, but it can be challenging to give it to others. 1) Let's start with trust  Trust is a fundamental concept that refers to the reliance, confidence, and faith that one person or entity places in another.  It is a definition...... don't make things complex. Let me explain. For me, trust is " to believe someone ".  2) How we built trust in others... Trust is built over time through consistent and positive inter

What is best ?? What does it truly mean??

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Recently I have been listening to many people's problems. And I heard the phrase" the best is waiting for you " And I thought how can you decide what is best...?? I just want to express my thoughts on it... Let's start with the beginning of the topic. My friend had some problems. And his morals are down. He told me his problems ... I told him " The best thing is waiting for you. These are just pebbles in the long journey " Here's the main topic ... Then I realised .... What is best?? I asked myself that question ... Here are my thoughts  The thing which brings success and happiness is the best thing for you.  So in life, we will get several of the worst things. After that, we might get the best thing. But how can you say it is best...?? You've never seen the next sequence of things and you never know the before things teach you something... U will just stop once you feel satisfied.   Isn't your self-satisfaction decide which is best or not ? ? I

Is Life a simulation ?

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what is life? A thought,  A desire,  A dream,  A nothing ---- pehlwanji I live in a world which has everything in it But I think I don't deserve them... It is not the 1st time I felt like this...I feel the world is a simulation where every time I will be a sacrificial goat. Everyone in their lives may have a similar situation as mine And go through similar phases. I just want to share my version... I feel this world is a simulation where it is testing me every day. When I feel I am an independent person. I think the Admin designed me that way to think I am independent. Every choice I make is a predefined path made by the Admin. When I want something that is closest to me... It will always end up breaking my heart. Why did the admin create such a program? To break at the end... The path which the Admin takes me is too difficult to manage. I know life is harder to live, but how much harder it will go? How far do I have to suffer? I think the persons who do suicide were trying to